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I Cropped My Body Out of a Photo
Deciding what to wear in the spring is complicated. The typical forecast on any given day in upstate New York ranges from snow and wind...
Melissa Marietta
May 2, 20215 min read
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Managing Emotions with Rubber and Glue
On a beautiful, fall afternoon in 2001, I stood in a parking lot with my future husband, Andy. It was the kind of day you see in...
Melissa Marietta
Apr 19, 20215 min read
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The Swimsuit: A Choose Your Own Adventure Story
Melissa opens the door to her mid-century ranch home, kicking her pumps into the corner of the welcome mat. She places her keys in a bowl...
Melissa Marietta
Apr 5, 20216 min read
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Setting a New Goal as an Anxious Perfectionist
Anything I can do, I can do better. If I had a motto in life, this is it. I am an anxious perfectionist. I set standards for myself that...
Melissa Marietta
Mar 27, 20215 min read
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A Thirty Minute Friendship
Beads of sweat run down the back of my neck. I keep my gaze down to watch for roots and rocks on the trail. Each step is carefully...
Melissa Marietta
Mar 8, 20213 min read
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Living with Teen Girls: Part One
I live in a house with two girls, ages 10 and 14. We have lived almost every moment of each day of the last year together. My girls spend...
Melissa Marietta
Feb 27, 20212 min read
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How I Feel When I'm Asked This One Thing
I was in my office, replying to email number fifty of the day, when I noticed a voice mail awaiting me. A professional connection asked...
Melissa Marietta
Feb 6, 20217 min read
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The Snow Angel
The sun reflects off the freshly fallen snow, causing a million little sparkles. The sky is deep blue and cloudless. Everything is bright...
Melissa Marietta
Jan 31, 20213 min read
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Lights in the Windows: A Story of Finding Simple Joy in the Pandemic
I was in my pajamas, snuggled under a blanket, melting into the calm of evening, when my husband asked me to pick up the pizza with him....
Melissa Marietta
Jan 16, 20212 min read
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My 2021 Resolution
On January 1, 2020 I began the Keto diet. Weight gain caused by a combination of an injury-induced retirement from running, and the joys...
Melissa Marietta
Jan 2, 20214 min read
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Social Media and the Town Stoning
Social media is the modern, town square stoning. Social media makes it hard for people to hide behind their horrible, often illegal...
Melissa Marietta
Dec 18, 20204 min read
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Talking to Your Spouse in Tweets
As a career services higher education professional, I provide advice to job seekers on how to positively position themselves to be...
Melissa Marietta
Dec 6, 20205 min read
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A Gift to Sisterhood
Remember the book and movie Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants? It's a feel-good, coming-of-age story about the bonds of female...
Melissa Marietta
Nov 29, 20204 min read
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To All the Cars I've Loved Before (and One I Hated)
I take pride in my vehicle. I purchased my first car, a 1987 Saab 900s, from a friend in 2001. With some basic coaching from her, I...
Melissa Marietta
Nov 15, 20208 min read
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Another Open PM to Polly
Three years ago, I had a brief and tumultuous relationship with a Facebook troll named Polly Baker. My husband, Andy, was the incumbent...
Melissa Marietta
Nov 3, 20206 min read
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A Tiny Love Story
It had just started to rain when I dropped you off at school so I jumped out of the car to grab an umbrella from the back. You carried...
Melissa Marietta
Oct 19, 20202 min read
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An Interview with My Spouse
In honor of our 16th wedding anniversary, I sat down with Andy to reflect on nearly two decades of partnership. On a sunny weekend...
Melissa Marietta
Oct 4, 20207 min read
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I Am Annoyed By What You Are Saying
I am annoyed with the words we are using. I am irked by the sentences we are constructing and the phrases that we over use and over. I'm...
Melissa Marietta
Sep 20, 20205 min read
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Going Not-Back-To-School Shopping
I took the girls back-to-school shopping last weekend. The act of back-to-school shopping has never been a top activity of mine because...
Melissa Marietta
Aug 23, 20205 min read
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It's Hard to Have Answers for Your Kid in a Pandemic
I don't believe in lying to my children. It can cause some awkward conversations, like when I'm asked what Mommy and Daddy were doing in...
Melissa Marietta
Aug 4, 20203 min read
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